so i found my sister on facebook a few weeks ago and sent her a message asking if her last name used to be durst.  almost 3 weeks later, and she hasn't replied.  i know this might sound stalkerish, but i sent her first husband a message on facebook a few days ago.  he replied back yesterday and added me as a friend.  he said he didn't know why she has ignored me and my family.  i asked a few more questions about my sister, but didn't find out too many juicy details like i was hoping for.  he then said that he would see me at my brother's wedding in july.  WHAT?!  i didn't expect to hear that!  part of me wants to find out the details about the wedding and show up, but i would hate to cause drama, but i have every right to be there.  i'm guessing shawn wouldn't recognize me since it's been 9 years since i've last seen him, but heather's seen my picture since then.  i just want some answers, some closure, something that will keep me from trying anymore.  i'm dealing with this a lot better than i used to, but i still wonder why i'm getting this treatment. 

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